How to Pick Up Beautiful Women - Say ‘No’ To Shyness
October 12, 2007How to Pick Up Beautiful Women - Say ‘No’ To Shyness
By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Jack_A_Black]Jack A Black
How can you eat an elephant? One bite at a time, right? How do you climb a ladder? One rung at a time. How do you build-up your confidence? One step at a time.
When you take small steps, the frustration and anxiety you inevitably feel is more manageable. That’s why it’s very important to have a go at things which you would previously have found scary on a regular basis. Do you find it hard to talk to people, mainly the opposite sex? Strike up a conversation with one new person every day! Are you quiet even when you have something to say? Speak up, talk your talk! You gain encouragement and feel more confident every time you build on each small success.
* Do something practical to boost your self-confidence every day. Take measured risks. Each small step should be accompanied by a clear intention, an affirmation (or change of thinking) and mental rehearsal.
* Adopt the Boy Scouts’ motto, ‘Be prepared’. Before taking each step, do your homework. Find out what you need to do, practise the skills and acquire the relevant knowledge. Ninety per cent of the outcome in any activity depends on the quality of the preparation undertaken.
* Mentally rehearse each step. Imagine it done well and ’see’ it working out perfectly.
* Now go ahead and do it! Ignore any anxiety or discomfort, and remind yourself that anything your mind can conceive and believe; you can achieve. If it doesn’t work out, change your approach if necessary, and try again. Above all, keep your mind on what you want, never lose sight of your goal, and persevere.
*Do you have fear of speaking with the girls you like? Are you always waiting for the perfect situation where you will miraculously safe her from danger? Try out this exercise. Everyday try and meet a new girl, say “Hello” and introduce yourself, nothing engaging, have just a little chat about the weather or something interesting that has happened just near you. You don’t have to take phone numbers if you don’t want to. The practice is important, overcoming your fear of communication. It will amaze you how much easier it meeting new women will become.
*And there’s always fear of rejection. The mistake most people allow when being rejected is letting the doubt and frustration take over their emotions. That only deepens the problem. Actually, every rejection has to be used as an unprecedented possibility to learn and to stimulate your motivation, not the opposite - to bring you down mentally. Actually most of the times the mistake may not be in you! The girl could be having a bad day, or has torn her skirt and is embarrassed , or is a sociopath that hates all human kind. Or it could be that she is a sociopath that hates all man kind, that is having a bad day and has just torn her skirt 
. Anyway it’s her mistake to have let you go…
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